mind over heart matters??

Have (finally!! had the guts enough) to have talked to someone yesternight. Although it lasted until pastmidnight, it was a refreshing view towards life. The speaker insisted that once one gets older, a better half ought to be sought. But is it always the answer to life's mind boggling situation of a soul's longin search for a companion? i presented my views on the bad side of married life and it was all dismissed as a childish thoughts. Part of me (is very tempted, and still wanting to) accept the offer, part of me didn't. Common sense taught me to stick to the former decision coz in doing so, it will save me from heartaches, backaches, migranes and flu!! hehehe.. just kidding.. Hopefully something good will come out of this. ^^;